photo from IMDB

My name is Valerie.  I signed up to be the webmaster.

However, it turns out that’s a loaded word, both in real life and the movies, so I’m downgrading my aspirations.  I’ll be the narrator. (At least until someone changes the password!)

We have some other people who are better at tech stuff, and others who are better at writing, (especially writing concisely) but none who are adequate at both AND have spare time.  So, dear reader, you are stuck with me.  I’m sorry.  As often as I can, I’ll cajole the others into writing.  They seem pretty keen to introduce the ideas and strategies we’re working on; just a little hesitant to introduce themselves or spend 90 minutes coming up with a catchy jingle to advertise our next social event. Ridiculous, right?  Anyway, leading by example, off I go to write my  real  intro piece, about what sparked my interest in Cohousing.

Ok, I admit starting to blog publicly does feel a bit like climbing into a fish bowl.

You are welcome to attend our next event…

…the details of which, if it’s a social, should appear under the calendar of all the events you could attend, below.

We try to have one social event (you can see examples of old events if you keep scrolling down below the upcoming event) and one business meeting each month, as well as various internal “circle” meetings & workshops.  There’s also the occasional (more frequent in summer) outreach event, if you’d like to meet us “incognito.”

If Cohousing is of interest to you, we hope to see you soon!

(Or, If you’re feeling shy, you can get more info  or just follow our progress here until you’ve gotten to know us a little.)

If Cohousing isn’t of interest to you, but you made it this far, please would you tell us what would change your mind?


Feb Social: Potluck

Sunday, 10 February, 5:00 pm – 7:30 pm

Secret Location – RSVP for details

Concorde members are attending a Conflict Resolution workshop early in the afternoon, then we’ll be testing our newfound skills by NOT fighting over the last spring roll or perogy.


Come see how we do!

Skating (Some slipping)

photo credit: Ottawa Tourism

1-3 pm, January 12, 2019

Sens Rink of Dreams

110 Laurier Ave W, Ottawa, ON

Regardless of your skill on skates, join us to enjoy one of the luxuries of living in Ottawa: myriad outdoor rinks on public property – this one on city hall’s front yard, which is central enough to get to without a car, though if you do drive, the garage under city hall will be free.

If you have skates, bring ’em.  If you don’t, come anyway!  You can rent a pair (and even a helmet) or just stand by the boards and watch the Zamboni.
If you are worried about staying warm, don’t forget your toque, but also, be assured that there is a warming hut and Beavertails stand (go here to check out nutritional & allergen info, or just to drool over the options.) I’m told there’s a warm up space inside city hall too, but I can’t find any supporting evidence, so do remember that toque!

Before “Cohousing”

Today’s post was written by one of our founding members, Caroline. 

Of all of us, she has probably the longest history with intentional communities so it seemed good to let her story be first.  

Please note that any text in italics is mine, whereas the plain text is Caroline’s.

In 1945 my parents helped a small group of progressive people found an “intentional community” in Chester County, outside of Philadelphia, called Tanguy Homesteads.




Thanks, Daily Mail, but not that Tan Guy!




The founders were mostly Quaker and largely white, but their goal was to be both inter religious and interracial. They pooled their resources and bought a 200 acre farm, leased each family a 2 acre lot, and had community potlucks, folk dances and business meetings in the “Big House” — the locals apparently thought Tanguy folks were communists!

Photo credit: Matt Bateman, Flickr



Really?  This is what I think communists build.




Pretty soon we had dug a community pond for swimming and skating in season, and there was a lot of Co Op childcare in parenting. Eventually one family began a small automatically ratcheting wrench business that employed several other families’ members.

Our family were Associate Member for years, because we already owned some land nearby, but after my father‘s untimely death, my mother and her six children (I was the third) moved into a new home in 1957.

Sweat Equity

It was “Techbuilt” (somewhat like modular housing today) and the contractor was a member of Tanguy.  We put a lot of sweat equity into that house!




I attended the local junior high for grade 8, and started going to Westown Friends (Quaker) School In grade 9. By grade 11 I was a boarding student, though my home was only 2 miles away, and then I went to college in Boston, far away. These separations meant I really didn’t have very much of an “older teenage” or young adult view of the way the Tanguy community worked, but it was a terrific place to grow up.

I do remember many shared activities (games nights, “progressive” dinners, life-saving classes in the pond, a summer youth production of West Side Story, etc.), and my best friend lived just down the road.

Valerie's Friends from Haiti
My friend down the road: I’ll walk you home and then you walk me home and then I’ll walk you home… Best summer night ever!

Not surprisingly after such a cooperative-based upbringing, I’ve often lived in shared housing. Almost always these homes were owned by me and/or my late husband, so there wasn’t a completely equal basis to decision-making.  Still, I’m used to having neighbours who do more than share the proverbial cup of sugar and I look forward to being able to really build close relationships and cooperation within Concorde.

Tanguy Homesteads, Glen Mills, Pennsylvania circa 1970.


For the record: I was a member of Terra Firma in the 90s, before I went away to do research in England & before TF actually bought the homes where it is now based. I have also been a (fairly inactive) member of Convivium.


2018’s Last Summer Social

On October 20th, several of our members and interested “explorers” went for a walk and talk at the future site of the Botanical Garden of Canada.

Canadensis, is, like us, still in the early stages, so it will be exciting to see how it progresses, as it was a wonderful place for a Concorde Social .  It lines up perfectly with one of the preferences our group first united upon:   Urban With Nearby Nature.  

That means that while we love to be surrounded by flowers and leaves and rivers and sheep…

Shameless plug: Canadensis is right across the street from the Agriculture Museum, which I use my kid as an excuse to visit so often the newspaper took this picture!

….we still want to live in the city, with public transportation, walkable  errands and the spectrum of cuisines and cultural activities associated with an urban setting.

So, as I said, the Canadensis walk was perfect for us: free, no car required,  (though admittedly, it’s a bit of a trek from the closest bus stop) beautiful nature. some cultural displays and a picnic.  (Because it wouldn’t be a Concorde event without Somebody Sharing Something Scrumptious!)

Unfortunately, since October isn’t actually summer,  the picnic was while we were standing and we didn’t get to put our toes in the grass.

Still, despite a drizzly grey morning, it turned into a beautiful day and it gave one of our members, Jake, a chance to tell us about helping to build Canadensis a sun structure earlier this year.  He said it was like putting an egg carton together in the sky.  That makes a bit more sense once you’ve seen a picture, but all I have is this picture of Jake.



I’m looking forward to checking on their progress and using the picnic shelter for a proper sit-down picnic next year.

Maybe you, dear reader, will join us?







Welcome to the new website of Concorde Cohousing.

Concorde Cohousing is a forming “co-housing” group in Ottawa Canada.

This website is currently under construction. (June 2018)

The rest of the website (especially an “about us” page, will be filled out as soon as we can get it done. In the meantime use the Contact page to reach us, or come out to an event.